Letting go and moving forward!

So it’s been a tough couple of months.  Some things in my personal life put my riding on the back burner. It wasn’t a fun couple of months that’s for sure, but I have come through it, and while I’m a bit bruised and tarnished I am definitely feeling like a stronger and happier person!  And the last few weeks my riding has gone from ok to amazing!!  Mister is looking absolutely beautiful and is shiny and healthy and happy!  Sometimes it takes letting go of people to be able to move forward.  A relationship that was toxic ended and while I was upset about it at first now I feel like I’ve been released from a life I didn’t actually want-I know that sounds a bit dramatic!  But I am not someone who settles and I was settling for mediocrity.  I was going to have to give up showing and while I know that isn’t a big deal for some people, I love it and I’m not ready to give it up.  I love my horses and I love showing off how beautiful they are and I love growing and getting better as a rider.

The past few weeks we have been working on the shoulder in, the haunches in, turn on the haunches and making Mister follow his nose.  We even got a couple steps of half pass though I have no idea how we did it, ok well I have some idea but not entirely!  I’ve also been working really hard on connection and am finally getting it!  A couple weeks ago we also worked on collections and extensions and he is moving so nicely!!  Also he is sooo incredibly sensitive, all I have to do is move slightly and he does it once he knows what I’m asking!  I’ve been riding in my dressage saddle instead of the western and I’m not sure why but it has made a huge difference in my legs; I really feel like they are on my saddle and I’m keeping him under me straighter.

We haven’t been to a dressage show this year because there were a few things going on during the time of the first 2 shows of the season. And now we are in the middle of the craziest forest fire season we’ve seen in years which has made travel difficult.  If there is a show in town in September we will go but otherwise this will probably be a non-showing summer!!  That’s ok there will be more shows next year and this summer will be a summer of learning and regaining my confidence.  We are working on so much new stuff and I can’t believe how far we’ve come just in the last few weeks!  Even Saturday while it wasn’t our best ride of the past few weeks, it was still good and I learned a valuable lesson!  I saw when things start to go wrong and how quickly it can undo all the good we have worked so hard for!  But I also learned that it’s pretty easy to get him back if he I just re-focus on us instead of paying attention to everything else going on!    I’ve always known that but sometimes I just need a reminder!  I really feel like we are ahead of where we were a few months ago before I got sidetracked. I have my eyes set on amazing things for Mister and I and for Cierra and I too!  She has been pretty awesome lately and I think because I have been doing basic skills with her it has cemented them into me and it has made me a better rider for Mister as well.

Cierra seems to love showmanship and is pretty sensitive to my  movement!  It’s pretty neat!  I didn’t enjoy showmanship before because Mister and I were awful at it.  But it’s really fun with Cierra!  We did some pole work one day and she just trotted over them without touching them!  She’s just so mellow and chill! She was supposed to be my dressage horse but we shall see what she wants to do!  Mister seems to be loving the whole dressage thing right now and is so sensitive to me that he might be my dressage horse and Cierra might be my all around horse!  Who know’s!  I do think I might learn jumping with her though as well as dressage  and maybe some western as well since she has a super cute jog!  But next year she could totally change!  Next year we should have a better idea of what she wants to do!  Next year I’ll get her out to a show too and definitely a few for Mister as well!  I am super excited again!  Next time I’ll get a few new pics of them!  They are both looking so amazing!  Cierra is still a bit chubby but she is slimming down since I’ve been working with her more!  She will be my 5 day a week riding horse eventually cause like me she will need to be kept in shape!!  I’m enjoying the present with these 2 but also incredibly excited about our future!  Until next time!!


Reminiscing of show season’s past!

I came across a few pictures of a show in Smithers in 2012 that Mister and I were in!  My mom brought my nieces and nephew to come watch the show and go to the fall fair.  Mister was sooo good with all the attention! I love that horse! I love the reminder of how calm he was and how much he loved the attention even though he was getting swarmed by strangers!  And he was awesome with the kids too!  I am excited for this show season!! Enjoy the pics and smiles!



Happy Birthday Cierra!!



Today is Cierra’s 2nd birthday! I gave her a nice brush and some scratches! She was happy with that! She doesn’t like treats so I don’t give her any anymore, cause all she does is spit them out! Saturday we had a nice visit too and was soooooo much calmer than last Saturday! I thought she was the being silly and it turns out that I was the one being crazy and she was reacting to it!! Isn’t that usually the way it is! I’m usually super calm and chill with her and when I’m not she doesn’t like it! She may be even more sensitive to my moods than my Mister Magoo!! I will definitely have to keep my show nerves under control with her! She calms down as soon as I do though and is very forgiving, just like my Mister Magoo which is nice! I’m really enjoying working with her and can’t wait to see what our future holds!!!

Confidence emerges with the Spring!

What an amazing week!  Monday was not the greatest, Mister was just not his normal self, however he had his pep back on Tuesday and I put boots on him which also seemed to help. I rode on Thursday and he was just awesome, we did our circles, diagonals and transitions perfectly!  When I asked he went and for however long (well mostly-we are working on that still but waaaay ahead of where we were even a few weeks ago!) I asked!  Then on Friday I rode in my dressage saddle and I haven’t rode in it since the fall and it was like I had been riding in it all year!  And again we got out transitions, and diagonals  and circles perfectly as well as working on our leg yields and a few other things!  I could not have had a better ride!

Today I rode all by myself.  I had a few things to do this morning so I couldn’t go out when my riding instructor was there so I went out on my own and had an excellent ride!  It’s been quite awhile since I rode on my own so I thought I’d see what we were both feeling like.  When I lunged him and he listened I decided to get on.  No nerves or anything from either of us, so I put him through the paces, walk, jog, and trot both to get him moving out as well as collecting up and cantered as well.  We worked on straightness and staying in the gait.  He was awesome!

I love that horse more and more which I didn’t think was possible since I’ve loved that horse since I first met him!  But over the years our relationship has changed just like with human relationships-we are in a very comfortable and happy stage.  I know what to expect from his silliness, and when he’s a bit too chill I know something’s off, I know when he’s just being  lazy and when he throws that buck once in awhile I also know what it means!  It’s nice to be in that place!  My filly on the other hand is throwing me for a loop! Last week she was super chill and peaceful and then Saturday she was back to being wild!  She may also have been in heat!  My first time dealing with heat cycles and am going to have to learn what she’s like and what she needs.  At least I have my old faithful while I learn the ways of my little  Cierra girl with attitude!  Oh wait she is me-sweet but also has an attitude!   She’s silly, sweet and sassy!!

I am so looking forward to this week!  Tomorrow I’m riding, Thursday I’m practicing Level 1 and Friday back in the dressage saddle! Until next time!

Chill and mellow horses and a big happy birthday to my Mister Magoo!

Everyone wants a mellow horse but neither of my horses are super mellow!  Unless something is not quite right, sometimes it’s because I’m in a super mellow mood but sometimes it’s because something is off with them!  Especially since the spring usually means he’s a bit friskier and happier!  I rode him on Sunday and we cantered with other horses in the arena and not just other horses that were in the arena walking and trotting, we cantered with other horses also cantering!! And I didn’t feel nervous!  So yay us! Then Monday he had his shoes put on and he was super well behaved for the farrier.  Normally he is a bit impatient and can pull his feet away or shifts his weight, nothing really bad just annoying and his farrier gets mad.  But last Monday he was picture perfect!  I gave him a few days to get used to his feet again, he doesn’t do well with change!  He does do better going no shoes to shoes than he does going from shoes to no shoes though, so hopefully this time around will be less painful for him!  I rode him for a bit on Thursday and then Friday we had an awesome ride! His lope was sooo slow!  I gave him Saturday off and he was just sprawled right out in his pen.  Did not miss me at all.  That was ok I worked with my little girl and she too was super mellow, which for her has been weird as well since she’s usually quite spunky! Both of them are usually spunkier!!  A week of mellow is not normal for my brat!  My little girl is probably growing as that’s usually when we she is so chill!  So she will get a break again for abit to grow again!  As for my big guy, his feet are probably bugging him.  Tomorrow I will bring out his boots and see if that helps him.  We noticed that today he was kind of paddling to keep his front legs away from his back legs and we are pretty sure that was why he was so slow on Friday!  I don’t want him to be that slow if it’s because he is hitting himself or is worried that he’s hitting himself. I do remember now why I had bought the boots for him last year as he was doing it last year! And I will remember for the future that he needs boots for the first bit of having shoes on until he can figure out his new stride and how not to hit himself! I hope he figures it out soon so he can stop hitting himself!

Also today was Mister’s birthday!  He is 9 today!  I got a super cute picture done last week.  My riding instructor was also the one that bred Mister and gave me a picture of him at a day old with her and daughter so last week we took a picture of her daughter and Mister 9 years later!  It is so cute!  We said we will have to do another one of the two of them when she graduates high school!  Aren’t they cute!!  Until next time!!



Slowing down

So the last few weeks we have been slowing things down with Mister, he has seemed to really enjoy it.  We thought it would take a while to bring back the lope but it seems it is coming back a lot of quicker than we thought.  And his jog, that horse loves to jog! We even got a compliment that our lope after only a few weeks is good enough to compete in open shows!  We are still going to do dressage, we are just going to do it all!  Dressage, western dressage, western pleasure, hunter under saddle and some trail!  Quarter horses really can do it all!!  We are back to doing lots of dressage exercises again and he seems to be liking the slowed down versions.

Next week we are trying the dressage saddle again.  It will be nice to be back in it!  We have our first show in April so we are going to have to start getting ready for that!

The weather is warming up this week so I’m excited about getting some good riding in!  We rode this week but it was so cold that we didn’t push anything.  I was asked to canter and while we did the wind made it too cold to do it for too long.  So this week it will be nicer and we will practice everything!  So until next week, happy riding!



Changing gears

Mister and I are going back to our roots, at least temporarily.  As much as I love dressage, Mister and I need a break.   And probably just in some training.  Mister has always loved to jog and even though we have pushed his trot out he has always retained his jog which we both love. So last week we decided to change things up. I want to ride a few western pleasure classes this year as well so for the next few months we are going to slow things down, work on his jog and lope transitions and in general take a breath. Already Mister and I seemed to have relaxed. Maybe it’s just me! All I know is that when I speed up I get more stressed out whether it’s at work or riding, when I pick up the pace I get tense, which in turn makes Mister tense. Last show season I worked on keeping myself calm which worked but it lacked shine and pizzazz.  I am open to seeing where we go.  I think we will come back to it and just go back and forth between dressage and western pleasure and will definitely keep doing western dressage. We worked on his lope and I thought it was going to take awhile since we have been working on pushing him out and speeding him up but we are getting it already!!

Our biggest problem which has followed us around for years is that he doesn’t stay in whatever gait I put him in, he will stop and I’ll have to get him going again.  I want to be able to cue him and then leave him alone until I ask for the next cue!  In the jog he’s pretty good but canter/lope he’s a bit of a quitter!  But we are working on it!  I’ve let him do it for years so now we are working on it. It’s just a matter of consistency.  I’ve always let him get away with because there was something else we were working on.  But now it’s time to get this nipped in the bud.  There’s always something to focus on and learn and that’s one of the joys of riding and working with horses-you will never learn  it all and you will always have something new to learn!!

So until  next time!

Learning to fly!

A couple weeks ago we were amazingly able to ride 4 days and get back into our routine!  But it was short lived as winter always seems to get in the way!!  It was a pretty amazing week!   We were working on collections and extensions and really were getting it!  His trot was beautiful and getting the collection and extension seemed easy by the end of the week! We really were flying and then I was able to bring him back nicely and keep the energy flowing and feel the nice beautiful trot that I love watching! It was so nice to be able to ride for 4 days and not have the weather interrupt us!  We were able to get back in our routine and see more progression by the end of the end of week.  Oh well I shouldn’t complain too much as I have friends who haven’t been able to ride much if at all due to the weather!!

The next week I rode with people and pushed my boundaries a bit too much!  Sometimes you really do have to push the edges of your comfort zone.  I’ve been really working on handling unexpected things while I ride, about a month ago I rode with quite a few people riding and a horse lunging, people cutting me off and doing their own thing in the arena and not paying attention.  I handled it really well until someone left the barn and opened the door making a loud sound then Mister decided to buck a few times a quarter way around the ring!  Thankfully I stuck it out!  Mister calmed down then I made him work his butt off!  The next week I rode with one of my friends and Mister was upset and just bounced me around a bunch since he just wanted to hang out and didn’t like that I made him work!  Usually when I ride with lots of people I let us just hang out and don’t push him.  It used to be because I was nervous of other riders, then it became me just wanting to visit and also because by the end of the week I am pretty tired so I don’t usually want to push myself.  But last week I was a bit frazzled so riding with people put me back to being nervous of riding with other people.  I need to trust myself and my horse and not worry about the level of riding other people have.  I know Mister and I can handle whatever comes our way but sometimes I forget and get stuck on the other horses and riders in the arena.  It was a good reminder that I need to focus on myself and my horse-of course you have to pay attention but not in the all encompassing way-just in the way that keeps you out of trouble!   In the showring I can’t be worried about all the other horses and riders, I need to pay attention to us and give us the best possible chance for the best possible ride!

This past week was a good week, though only 2 rides since it got cold again, also because sometimes when you have a really good ride you just want to savour it a bit more-however then it got cold so when I wanted to get that feeling again it was too cold!  My last ride was beautiful!  A floaty, beautiful trot and canter!!  The canter was amazing!  Not only was the canter so nice, his attitude was super lovey-I just wanted to hang out with him all day even though it was chilly and I had to go to work!  We haven’t had that canter in a while so it was just so nice to feel it again!  Hopefully the weather will get warmer again so we can work on that canter and trot again!  It was beautiful!  It’s all such a dance! And I love to dance!

Mistakes happen and out of it confidence emerges!

So I’ve been doing a lot of thinking about mistakes lately.  Maybe it’s because the year is almost over so in thinking about dreams and goals for the future we also have to think about our mistakes, especially if you want to grow as a rider and push your comfort zone and boundaries.  Also I was thinking about it because my little filly has been doing something the same thing my big guy always does and I know that behaviours that you’re working through travel horse to horse until you deal with them, like spooking or bucking.  This one is an interesting one.  Mister gets mad and bucks after he slips on the lunge line (thankfully if he slips while riding he doesn’t buck!!) . But he does buck under saddle when he gets upset.  I used to get upset when I would make mistakes too.  My rides had to be perfect.  Not sure where this came from, but I would put a lot of pressure on myself.  I have passed this onto my horses it seems as well and I have really noticed my geldings attitude lately hasn’t been his most happiest.  He’s happy when he’s working and doing something he enjoys and knows how to but when I push him out of his comfort zone or when we do something that bores him I get attitude, usually a buck!!  I am also happy when I’m in my comfort zone and understand but if I don’t understand or feel overwhelmed I get upset.   My filly also did that the other day and she hasn’t been around him when he does that so she couldn’t have picked it up from seeing him do it. In the exact same way-she slipped and then gave a big buck right after.  So somehow I’ve already made her feel angry about making mistakes.  I never want them to feel like they can’t make mistakes or they can’t try!   It really upset me the other day when I saw her get upset because she felt she made a mistake.  I love those 2 horses and I want them to be happy!!  It’s crazy how  horses seem to bring out the best and worst in you in order to be a better you!!

So starting now I’m going to let go of the feeling that mistakes = failure and start embracing the try and let’s play and push some boundaries!  Take a little risk and have some fun!  I now understand when my riding instructor told me during the show season to give my test some pizzazz and take some risks.

My last ride really showed this.  I’ve been talking to my riding instructor about wanting to build my confidence which means putting myself in situations that may not turn out well and then showing me that I can actually handle them.  I handled other horses and riders (often I ride with just my riding instructor since I work in the afternoon/evening) being cut off, and people doing their own thing and having to pay attention and guide Mister.  Mister handled it all beautifully and was so content!  Then one of the girls left with her horse and he exploded in a fit of bucks a quarter of the way around the arena!  I saw the ground but thought nope not hitting the dirt today!!  I had the reins pretty draped since he had been so calm earlier and so it really caught me by surprise!  Other horses leaving through the aisle on the side have always made him react (not always a huge bucking fit sometimes it’s just a bit of a sideways spook and other times it’s what it was the other day!)  Usually we stop while the horse goes up the aisle  and wait but it had been awhile since he had that reaction so I hadn’t even thought about it!  At any rate I did not hit the dirt, he stopped, and then we went back to work and had a beautiful ride when I was filled up with a bit of adrenaline!  So another confidence boost!  I can think about the fact that he bucked or that I handled it and we had a really good ride after that!!  I choose to think about that the fact that we handled it and that we have some work for the new year! Oh Mister Magoo you always keep my life interesting and fun!!

Can’t wait for the first ride of the New Year!!